A hyperactive dog does not necessarily need more talking, more excitement, or a clever distraction. In Cesar Millan’s approach, the first priority is to lower the intensity of the dog’s state of mind and give that energy somewhere productive to go. When humans respond to excitement with their own nervousness, frustration, fast movement, or repeated commands, they can unintentionally contribute to the very behavior they are trying to stop.
That lesson became especially clear with Moses, a six-year-old Boston Terrier whose behavior had turned daily life with his human, Sarah, and her roommates into a constant source of tension. He raced around the home, jumped on furniture, reacted intensely when people approached the door, and had even jumped out of a window three times. His behavior around people leaving the house had been described as separation anxiety, but Cesar saw a more fundamental issue: Moses was carrying a tremendous amount of energy without enough exercise, mental stimulation, structure, or clear rules, boundaries, and limitations.
The larger lesson is not simply how to stop a dog from jumping or barking. It is how humans can change the environment they are creating around an excited dog so the dog has a better state of mind to follow.
What Helps an Excited Dog Become More Balanced
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Do not respond to an excited dog by becoming more excited yourself.
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Physical exercise and mental stimulation matter when a dog has energy with no productive outlet.
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Rules, boundaries, and limitations give a dog clearer direction.
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A crate should be associated with resting or sleeping, not used to contain a dog who is still full of chaotic energy.
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Calm, Confident energy communicates more clearly than frantic repetition.
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Everyone living with the dog should work together instead of sending different messages.
Excitement Cannot Be Solved With More Excitement
One of Cesar’s first observations was how the humans reacted when Moses became highly excited.
They moved quickly. They tried to get away from him. They repeated commands such as “wait,” “stop,” and “no” over and over. But Moses was already operating at such a high level of intensity that he was not really listening.
Cesar described a point where excitement can move beyond an ordinary energetic state into something hyperactive and obsessive. At that level, the dog moves extremely fast and becomes difficult to reach through words alone. Repeating commands rapidly while feeling nervous or frustrated adds more intensity to an already intense situation.
That is why Cesar would not use excitement to redirect excitement.
The goal is first to bring the mind into a calmer state. Only then can the dog become more available to direction.
This principle applies even before anyone leaves the house. Dogs notice patterns. Moses could recognize shoes, clothes, perfume, routines, and the usual timing associated with people leaving. Trying to suddenly run away, hide the departure, or outsmart him did not change what he was already noticing.
For Cesar, the more useful question was not, “How can the humans get away before Moses realizes they are leaving?”
It was, “What state of mind is Moses in before anyone tries to leave?”
That shift changes the human’s role completely.
What Looked Like Separation Anxiety Was Also Unmet Energy
Sarah described Moses’ problems as beginning with separation anxiety whenever her roommates tried to leave.
Cesar looked underneath that label.
He observed that nobody was addressing Moses’ excitement before the departure and that his needs for physical exercise and mental stimulation were not being met. Moses had learned that the ritual of people leaving created an opportunity to release energy. The humans became nervous, anxious, or frustrated, and Moses responded by grabbing and biting objects as a way of draining the energy he was carrying.
Later, Cesar saw Moses moving around with enormous physical intensity. He described him as bouncing in every direction. The dog was not receiving physical exercise or mental challenges, so he appeared to have no clear idea what to do with himself except keep moving.
That matters because the behavior was not happening in isolation.
The household was focused on stopping Moses after he became highly excited. Cesar wanted them to look earlier in the sequence and recognize what the dog needed before reaching that point.
Exercise, mental stimulation, discipline, and calm direction were not separate issues. Together, they created a different relationship between Moses and the humans around him.
Rules, Boundaries, and Limitations Give Energy Direction
Moses climbed on furniture, rushed doors, ignored personal space, and behaved as though the house itself were an obstacle course.
For Cesar, those behaviors pointed toward the absence of rules, boundaries, and limitations.
He connected that idea directly to discipline. Discipline was not presented as anger or punishment. It was the structure between a goal and achieving that goal.
If the humans wanted a calmer home but did not consistently create boundaries around doors, furniture, greetings, movement, and personal space, the desired outcome had very little structure supporting it.
This also meant changing how the humans thought about responsibility.
Sarah loved Moses. She also loved her roommates. His behavior had become so disruptive that she feared she might eventually have to choose between keeping the dog and preserving her living situation.
Cesar did not frame that as a reason to blame Sarah, the roommates, or Moses.
Instead, he focused on identifying where responsibility existed and then building a strategy around it. His broader belief is that dogs function much better when the environment gives them safety, peace, affection, exercise, discipline, and clear human direction.
The goal was not to decide who was at fault.
The goal was to understand what needed to change.
Why a Crate Should Represent Rest, Not Trapped Energy
One of the household’s attempts to manage Moses was putting him in a crate.
He destroyed it.
Cesar’s response was direct: a dog should not be placed into a crate while still carrying intense physical energy or while in a chaotic, confused state of mind.
The crate should have an association with resting or sleeping.
Putting a highly energized dog into a confined space does not automatically create calmness. From Cesar’s perspective, it can simply trap the energy that has not yet been addressed. With Moses, the same pattern was visible beyond the metal crate. He reacted to the house itself as another enclosed environment where his energy remained unresolved.
This is another reason the sequence matters.
Calmness should come before confinement.
The crate itself was not being treated as the solution. The dog’s state of mind still had to be addressed first.
Calm, Confident Energy Communicates More Clearly
When Cesar began working with Moses around the doorway, he focused less on saying more and more on changing the intensity.
The humans had been using repeated verbal commands while already feeling stressed. Cesar wanted Moses to become responsive to calmness instead.
He described the goal as having the dog connected to the human’s calmness, confidence, love, and joy.
When a dog is so intensely aroused that he is no longer responding naturally, Cesar may use sound or touch to interrupt the state and bring the mind back to a place where the dog can notice what is happening. The point is not to add excitement. It is to reduce it.
As Moses began slowing down, Cesar asked him to respect distance and reconnect with a more instinctual response. He was not trying to communicate with Moses through his breed, his name, or the habits he had already practiced. He wanted to communicate with the dog’s instincts.
In Cesar’s terminology, those instincts become more available in a state of Calm, Surrender—relaxation rather than frantic movement.
The practical difference could be seen at the door.
A dog rushing through an open doorway is not only difficult to manage. In Moses’ case, it was dangerous. Cesar pointed out that if someone failed to close the door, Moses could run away and get hurt.
The doorway therefore became more than an exit. It became a place to practice calmness, boundaries, and communication.
Change What the Door and Knocking Mean to the Dog
Once Moses was calmer near the door, Cesar addressed another trigger: knocking.
The sound normally created excitement and barking. Cesar wanted to teach Moses that the same sound could be followed by another response.
He worked on desensitizing him to the knocking while Moses was at a lower level of intensity.
Instead of allowing every sound to mean “rush forward and bark,” the exercise created another possibility: hear the sound and remain quiet.
This was part of being proactive rather than only reacting after Moses had already escalated.
Cesar also worked on social distance. When Moses moved quickly toward the fence door after hearing a knock, Cesar blocked the forward movement and guided him back toward a calmer state.
The lesson was not merely “do not bark.”
It was that the dog could learn a different state of mind around a familiar trigger.
The Human Must Set the Tone Before Opening the Door
A major test came when one of Sarah’s roommates, Erica, practiced entering the house.
At first, she opened the door without truly stopping Moses from moving past her. She might have spoken to him, but Cesar emphasized that words alone were not the communication he was looking for.
In the animal world, Cesar places enormous importance on energy.
If a person says “no” or “stop” while internally feeling uncertain, the dog may respond more strongly to that uncertainty than to the spoken word.
That is the meaning behind being Calm, Confident.
Cesar later clarified the language around confidence: what matters is the feeling. A person does not need to become angry or forceful. The useful state is calm and confident because that is what allows the dog to trust and respect the direction being given.
When Erica tried again, she changed the approach.
She entered, created the boundary, and helped Moses remain in place instead of allowing his hyperactivity to determine what happened next.
That was progress because the human set the tone before Moses did.
Everyone in the Home Has to Work Together
Moses did not live with only one person.
That made teamwork essential.
Cesar saw an advantage in the fact that Sarah had roommates: multiple people could help create consistency if they agreed on the same approach.
If one person creates a boundary while another gives way, the dog receives mixed information. If one person enters calmly while another becomes anxious about being jumped on, the greeting ritual changes depending on who walks through the door.
Cesar therefore emphasized agreement.
Everyone had to understand calmness first, followed by the rules, boundaries, and limitations that would apply to Moses.
That creates a team.
It also asks people who do not technically consider the dog “theirs” to recognize that their behavior still affects him. Cesar pointed out that if someone lives with a dog, that person is still part of the dog’s social environment.
His request was for empathy and compassion.
Even if Moses belonged primarily to Sarah, everyone living in the house could contribute to meeting his needs and giving him a clearer way to behave.
Stop Carrying Yesterday Into Today’s Greeting
Cesar also asked the roommates to change what they brought emotionally into each interaction.
If Moses had jumped on someone repeatedly in the past, that person could easily approach the next greeting already thinking, “I hope he doesn’t jump on me.”
But Cesar wanted them to remove what had happened before and stop anticipating what might happen next.
The focus should be on the dog in front of them now.
That requires the human to be present rather than reacting to a memory of yesterday’s behavior.
Moses had practiced the same excited response many times because the environment around him had also been consistent. Changing his behavior therefore required the humans to become consistent in a new way.
As Cesar put it, the dog was repeating what the humans had given him.
That observation turns frustration into responsibility.
Instead of asking why the dog keeps doing the same thing, the human can ask what pattern everyone in the home keeps repeating with him.
The Better Dog Perspective
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With a dog like Moses, the transformation begins with what happens on the human side of the relationship.
A Calmer Dog Begins With a Different Human Approach
Moses had become the center of tension in a home where everyone felt as though they had to walk on eggshells. But Cesar’s central lesson was not that Moses was simply a bad dog.
He wanted the humans to see the patterns around him.
A dog full of energy was receiving too little productive physical and mental engagement. Excitement was being answered with more excitement. Doors had no consistent boundaries. The crate was being used before the dog was calm. Different people in the house were reacting differently. Everyone was frustrated by the result.
Changing those patterns required discipline from the humans before expecting discipline from the dog.
Calmness had to come first. Rules, boundaries, and limitations had to become consistent. The roommates had to work together. And the dog’s needs had to remain part of the equation rather than being ignored until the behavior became impossible to tolerate.
Cesar ultimately reduced the lesson to three ideas: it is never simply the dog, calmness has power, and people sharing a home need to work together.
For pet parents living with an intensely excited dog, that shifts the question from “How do I make this behavior stop?” to something much more useful:
“What am I giving my dog to follow?”
Frequently Asked Questions
Why was Moses so hyperactive?
Cesar observed that Moses was carrying a great deal of physical energy without enough physical exercise, mental stimulation, structure, or boundaries. He was repeatedly trying to drain that energy through running, jumping, barking, grabbing objects, and rushing around the home.
Should you keep talking to a hyperactive dog until the dog listens?
Not according to Cesar’s approach in this case. Repeating commands rapidly while the human is also excited, nervous, or frustrated can add intensity. Cesar first focused on bringing Moses into a calmer state so he could become more responsive.
Why did Moses destroy his crate?
Cesar believed Moses was being placed into the crate while still full of unresolved physical and emotional intensity. He teaches that a crate should be associated with resting or sleeping, not with trapping a dog who is still in a chaotic state.
How did Cesar work on Moses’ reaction to knocking?
He practiced the sounds while Moses was at a lower level of intensity. Instead of allowing knocking to automatically trigger rushing and barking, Cesar worked toward having the sound become associated with staying quieter and calmer.
Why did the roommates need to participate?
Because they all lived with Moses. Cesar emphasized agreement, consistency, and working together as a pack. Even when the dog primarily belongs to one person, everyone sharing the environment affects the patterns the dog experiences.
What did Cesar want the humans to learn most?
His final lessons were clear: do not make the dog the problem, understand the power of calmness, and work together. He emphasized empathy, compassion, consistency, and the human responsibility behind the dog’s behavior.